Ask any man and they’ll tell you: There are few pleasures in this life greater than getting a good blowjob.

For many guys, blowjobs are a sign of love. The only thing better than a great blowjob is a great blowjob that you enjoy giving him.

When he’s convinced that you love to suck his dick, your man will go to the ends of the earth and slay dragons for you.

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When you picture a blowjob — or take part in real life — you probably have one person on their knees and the receiver either sitting on standing. But that’s just a tiny slice of the spectrum of blowjob positions and variations out there, just waiting for you to explore and enjoy.

Whether your mission is to make him cum, make him forget about his ex, or make him so hard he loses all control, flips you over, and fucks you senseless… these comfortable, sexy bj positions are a must for your repertoire.

Get ready to become a blow job queen!

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  • On Your Knees

    There a few things hotter than having someone get down on their knees to service you. On the flip side, it can be hot as hell to get on your knees to please your partner. That’s what makes the On Your Knees position a classic. There’s also something different about receiving oral when standing vs. lying down that’s worth exploring.

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  • Lazy Sunday

    In this position, you lay alongside your partner and rest your head on a pillow or on his stomach to suck his penis.

    In a word, this position is downright comfortable, allowing both of you to relax. Suprise your man with a morning BJ and his blast-off will be anything but “lazy!”

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  • Boss’s Chair

    Make him feel like a boss with this beginner-friendly kneeling blow job position. He just has to sit on a chair or the edge of bed, while you kneel in front of him to suck his dick.

    From this position it’s easy for you to run your hands through his chest hair or play with his nipples as you give him head. This will truly enhance the experience.

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    Side Car

    This a less intense BJ position, all things considered. In this position, you can easily take a break and use your hands.

    Also, he can lean over and play with your breasts or rub your pussy.

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    Face Fuck

    This position is a winner for many reasons. First, the receiver feels dominant and in control since they’re straddling their partner’s face. Second, the angles of the position help to facilitate deep throating. Third, it’s incredibly sexy to look down at the giver as they go to town, not to mention that the giver has a great view of their partner’s junk.

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    Saddle Straddler

    This is another ideal position for deep throating. The receiver can really thrust into the giver. It’s a great position if the giver is more submissive and loves to have their mouth full.

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    Sideways 69

    This side blowjob position is excellent because it allows you and your partner to both receive and perform oral sex, a la the 69 position.

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    Lay Back Jack

    Sensory deprivation can take your sexual experience to a new level. When the receiver is blindfolded, they can focus exclusively on the wet, heavenly sensation of the blowjob.

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  • All Fours

    In this position, the receiver props themselves up on the bed while your partner stands in front of you.

    This can help reduce neck and back pain on the receiver’s end!

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    Over the Edge

    The giver lies with their head over the bed in this position, giving the top the opportunity to control the depth of oral penetration. The receiver can also play with their partner’s chest and genitals.

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    The Hump and Blow

    With one leg wrapped around the giver, the receiver can actually thrust into their partner with this position. Obviously, make sure your partner is cool with that before you go to town.

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Guys, don’t just lie back and do nothing while your partner orally stimulates you. Put some work in. When you do, it’s better for everyone. After all, both partners should get something out of the experience!

Rachel Foster

Book reader, yoga practitioner, hedonist at heart. Rachel is a freelance writer from San Diego who specializes in health and wellness.

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