Imagine the perfect lovemaking position: It would be comfortable, make her feel seductive and sensual and all but guarantee an earth-shattering climax for you both.
Sound like a dream? Actually, it’s woman on top – the “bad girl” pose that flips missionary sex on its head and puts her in total control.
Sexy, Passionate, Sweaty and Hot.
Being on top offers most women more gratification than other sex styles because it lets a woman feel close to her partner while putting her in charge of her own pleasure. She gets to decide how fast or how deep to go, making it more likely that she’ll reach orgasm.
Surprisingly, we get a lot of feedback from female readers saying they have no clue how to move in the woman-on-top position. Most are just shy about how they look naked. A few are scared of looking like a rodeo rider gone wrong.
To help you make riding dick a favorite part of your sexual repertoire, we’ve come up with the 10 best variations on this hot move.
Men really get into the sight of their sexy wild thing riding them. For a position that seemingly everyone’s heard of, it takes a little finesse to ride your way to orgasm.
To add to the pleasure, try gyrating back and forth, or spelling C-O-C-O-N-U-T with your hips, rather than just bouncing up and down.
While your partner lays on his back, squat on top of him face to face. Try alternating between shallow penetration and deep thrusting to target different pleasure zones.
Even better, sit all the way down and rock your hips from front to back. Picture yourself sensually riding a rocking horse for this move.
3. The Rider
In the Rider Position, she picks the angle and speed of the thrusting, so there’s plenty of opportunity to experiment and find that inside hot spot.
For a lot of women, reverse cowgirl sex can sometimes be too deep and even painful! No one needs that. So grab some pillows for a little extra knee support. Or, have your partner prop his knees up at an angle so he doesn’t go so deep.
4. Slow Ride
A great position to start your session. Lie on top of your parnter and grind on him to warm things up.
When you’re ready, slip his cock inside and rock back and forth. The angle is perfect for slow, intimate sex and you get the extra bonus of lots of clitoral stimulation.
5. Hot Seat
The magic of this one is its versatility. Forget the bed, try it on a chair, the edge of the bath or even on the stairs – preferably at your own home.
Being on top helps you regulate the pace and intensity of their thrusts.
Don’t forget you can use your hands as well to play with his balls, squeeze the base of his penis, or rub his nipples.
6. The Clapper
Once you’ve tried all the usual sex positions, it’s time start thinking about something new and exciting.
For this Kamasutra pose, start on all fours, and have your partner slide in behind you, placing his thighs over your calves.
Once he’s inside you, lean forward enough to place your hands on his knees.
Have your partner sit cross-legged and climb into their lap, facing them. Wrap your legs around their back and grind against him.
Don’t worry, you’re not doing all the work. He can grab your hips or thighs for support while you rock together.
This is a tantric sex position, good for those times you want sex to make sex last longer.
8. Lap Dance
For this move, your partner sits on a chair or the edge of the bed and you face them, seated on their lap.
This position is ideal for exploring different angles of penetration. Leaning forward or back changes angles and can help you and your partner find out what works for you both.
Make it even hotter by taking his hands and guiding them over your body.
The Double Decker is an intimate woman on top sex position that allows you to stimulate the clitoris and the g-spot at the same time.
If you like shallow penetration and the feeling of his cock just inside you, this is the move. You may want to keep a hand down there to avoid slippage.
Unlike most rear entry sex positions in which he holds the reins, The Beetle puts you in control.
To tease him, you can partially lower yourself onto his cock, then raise up again. He may beg for you to take the full plunge, but tantalizing him in this way will please him as much as you.