So you’ve been watching porn and decided to learn how to make a woman squirt in real life. At the very least, you probably want to find out whether it’s really possible…

I’ll leave you to judge whether those Brazzers clips you’ve seen are real or staged. The good news is: Yes, squirting is an actual thing. With a little bit of know-how and a fair amount of patience, you can master the technique yourself.

  1. Foreplay is Crucial

    Squirting orgasms tend to be pretty big orgasms. And she won’t be able to achieve those if she isn’t fully turned on.

    You’ll have a much better chance of making her squirt if she’s hella horny first, so make sure you’re building up to your squirting technique. Start with flirting, teasing, some lighter foreplay.

    Kiss her neck, lick her nipples, and squeeze her hips. Talk dirty to her while you softly rub her pussy. Give her clit some slow licks to really warm her up.

    If she’s into it, you can also edge her. That’s basically an arousal secret weapon. Every time you do it, she’ll get more and more turned on and desperate for an orgasm.

    Get her breathing heavily. Make her pant and moan and squirm. Then she’ll be ready for what’s coming next.

  2. Focus on Her G-Spot

    It’s entirely possible to give a woman a squirting orgasm by stimulating her clit.

    My first squirting orgasms were all thanks to my massaging showerhead. Something about the way the jets sprayed against my clit created a perfect storm for some very warm and wet orgasms.

    The first time I squirted with a partner, it was during a pussy job. His cock slid across my pussy, rubbing against my lips and clit until it made me come hard.

    But even though it’s possible to achieve clitoral squirting orgasms, by far the easiest and most reliable way is with G-spot stimulation.

    You shouldn’t neglect her clit. Rubbing and licking it is a great way to get her turned on and warmed up. And pleasuring your clit while you’re giving her internal stimulation is always a great move.

    But if you’re going to make her squirt, you should be focusing most of your efforts on her G-spot.

  3. Use Your Wrist

    When you’re using your fingers to pleasure a woman’s G-spot, chances are you’re doing one of two things.

    You’re either pushing your fingers in and out of her pussy or you’re keeping your hand in place and moving your index and middle fingers in that “come hither” motion.

    Both of those are fantastic. They feel really fucking good and do a good job of stimulating the G-spot.

    What they both do, though, is rub the G-spot.

    If you want to make your partner squirt, you should press it instead.

    I don’t understand the physiology behind this. I have no idea why it works. I just know that it does. There’s something about rhythmic pressure on the G-spot that encourages some very wet orgasms.

    And pressing the G-spot is all about using your wrist.

    Slide your index and middle fingers inside her. Crook them like you would when you’re rubbing her G-spot. But instead of rubbing, hold them in place and just move your wrist. Your hand will move in a rocking motion and your fingers will press her in the perfect spot to make her gush.

  4. Go Fast

    Some women, like myself, tend to prefer slow or soft stimulation. My best orgasms tend to come from slow and steady action.

    But squirting’s different. It usually takes a lot of speed and vigor.

    You don’t have to go too hard when you’re massaging her G-spot (in fact, it might be uncomfortable if you use too much force) but you definitely have to go fast.

    It might be possible to get her to squirt by going slowly, but I haven’t found it to be very effective. And judging from every squirting video I’ve seen, speed seems pretty much essential.

    So, really put your arm into it. Use up as much energy as you can. Do it so fast you tire yourself out.

    You might end up feeling a bit sore. Your arm will probably need a break after you’re done. But it’s worth it to give her such an explosive orgasm.

  5. Get Her to Bear Down

    A lot of people don’t realize that making your partner squirt is actually a two person job.

    You have to put in some of the work. You have to get her turned on. You have to move your wrist and press her G Spot just right.

    But to increase the chances of squirting, she’ll have to contract her muscles. Specifically, she’ll have to bear down while she’s having an orgasm.

    When she feels herself about to come, she needs to concentrate on basically flexing her PC muscles.

    It’s subtle — she might not even look like she’s doing anything. But it takes some effort and you will most certainly feel it around your fingers.

    When she’s getting close, encourage her to bear down. It might make it harder for you to move your fingers and press against her G-spot, but it’s going to make it so much easier to get the results you’re both aiming for.

  6. Get Wet and Messy

    Squirting orgasms are very cool, visually appealing, and a good, splashy fun time in general.

    But the best thing about them is that they don’t have to be one and done. I’ve managed to have several squirting orgasms in a row.

    So, if you enjoyed making your partner come and gush, you don’t have to stop. You can keep making her squirt over and over until she’s spent, starting to get sore, or wants to move on to some other kind of action.

    Just keep pressing her G-spot as long as your wrist can take it and see how much she can handle.