If you’re one of the millions of guys who have difficulty giving your partner an orgasm during sex, this article is for you.
Would you be surprised to learn only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse? This percentage is even less among college women.
In many cases, this has a lot to do with understanding female anatomy. Women need a lot of clitoral stimulation to get off. Unfortunately, not all sex positions deliver.
Luckily, there are some easy variations that are sexy as hell and also guarantee her pleasure. Here are seven of our favorite sex positions for you to try … Any one of these will do the trick, guaranteed!
How to do it: Lie on your stomach, legs closed, and have your partner enter you from behind. This take on the classic doggy-style position makes orgasm easier by allowing for G-spot stimulation. It also takes pressure off you, as you get to lie down on your stomach and relax.
Why we love it: “Me and my boyfriend are currently loving doggy style, but really low to the bed (like my hips at a very obtuse angle) with my legs closed between his. I like it because I like being able to feel his whole body on top of mine, and doggy is great because he can hit the G-spot. Having my legs closed just makes all the sensations better for both of us because it makes me tighter,” says Gabby, 22.
How to do it: Instead of lying on your side like you would in the classic spoon pose, lie on your back and spread your legs. Have your partner lie on their side and slide their legs between yours.
Why we love it: “This position is amazing for lazy people like me. I get to just lie back and use a vibrator on my clit, without having to worry about anything else. I also love how sexy I look from this angle with so little effort,” says Maria*, 32. “It’s easy for me to come like this because I know I look great, which makes me feel confident. I know he loves it too, because he gets to just lie there and thrust.”
How to do it: Have your partner sit up on the bed. Lower yourself on his lap so that you are facing each other and wrap your legs around him. This intimate position lets you rock back and forth for optimal clitoral stimulation.
Why we love it: “I love how intimate Lotus feels. I can kiss my partner and get a lot of grind action against my clit. It’s the best, ” Brianna, 31, tells us.
How to do it: Climb on top of your partner like you’re riding a pony. Mix up your moves between grinding and bouncing. You can use a finger vibrator for extra clitoral stimulation. This can help make orgasm easier.
Why we love it: “[When] you [are] on top, you have more control over clitoral contact and touching yourself,” Rodriguez tells us.
“I like straddling him on the couch while he’s almost kind of slouching and I can spread my legs wide enough to grind my clit on his pelvis,” says Candice, 23.
How to do it: Lie on your back with your legs open and put two pillows under your butt. The extra lift will make entering you easier for your partner and gives you much-needed G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
Why we love it: “I love missionary because I love feeling a man on top of me, ” Erin*, 27, tells us.
“When I put a few pillows under my butt, I’m able to align my pubic bone with my partner’s pelvis, ” says Grace*, 31. “This is called coital alignment technique, and it makes for easier orgasm.”
How to do it: Get on all fours. Have your partner enter you from behind. You can use your hands for extra stimulation.
Why we love it: “Doggy style allows for you or your partner to reach around and stimulate your clitoris,” says Polly Rodriguez, sex expert and CEO of Unbound.
“Doggy style remains my fave for lots of reasons – there’s something super animalistic about it (I mean, obviously; hence, the name) that just makes me feel dirty in a good way when I’m doing it in this position, and I love that the position lets either my partner or me (or whatever new toy I’m trying out) add some clit stimulation into the mix,” says writer Danielle Page, 29.
How to do it: Lie on your back on the bed or an ottoman with your feet touching the floor. Have your partner stand between your legs and enter you. You can keep your legs touching the floor or wrap them around your partner’s waist.
Why we love it: “My boyfriend loves it because he can see everything since he’s standing and thrusting. I like bringing a vibe into it,” says Chloe, 25.