Where Is The G-Spot?


It is perhaps one of the most controversial debates in human sexuality. Is there or isn’t there a G-spot? And if there is, how do you find it?

Some say it doesn’t exist, some say it is its own pleasure center, and some call it a part of the clitoris.

I can tell you from my own experience, the G-Spot is in fact a thing. While it might seem elusive, it’s not playing hard to get. You just have to know where to look.

where is the g-spot

You can find a woman’s G-spot on the front wall of her vagina, about two inches inside. It’s roughly the size of a bean and feels textured like a walnut.

If you’re still fumbling around trying to find the g-spot with no luck, here’s a tip: The area must be sexually stimulated in order for it to swell. Then you can actually feel it.

Normally, the G-Spot is smooth and flat like any other part of the vaginal wall. When a woman is fully aroused, it feels bumpy. That bumpy area is her paraurethral sponge, which supports the urethra and is like an “X” marking the spot.

Now before you get the wrong idea, the G-spot is not a magic button that you push once or twice to get her to explode in orgasmic contractions. It responds to firm, ongoing rubbing and massaging.

While all women have the tissue in varying forms, it’s going to feel really great for some women or it might be unpleasant for others. Not every woman enjoys G-spot stimulation and not every woman can have an orgasm this way.

I can’t stress enough how different everyone’s bodies can be.

I’d like to try to give my girlfriend a g-spot orgasm either with my dick, fingers or a toy. I’m fairly inexperienced and so is she, she hasn’t really explored herself so she doesn’t think she has a g-spot and maybe she doesn’t because I’m not real sure either. The last time we had sex though before I entered her I fingered her while she was on top and she said it felt really good. I did the come hither motion and what not. So I’d like to know what toys, positions or moves would be best for her to achieve this orgasm? – Eric R., 24

In my experience, the best way is to tease her and take things slooooow.

Have her lie down in missionary (or you can try doggy style if she prefers,) and just focus on her. Don’t even directly touch her clit at first.

When she’s good and wet, slide a finger inside her. Massage the vaginal wall that’s closest to the clit, paying attention to where she’s the most sensitive. Focus on that spot – some women like gradually intensifying pressure and/or faster movement. Continue rhythmically licking her clit while you’re doing this, and add fingers as needed.

Most women are still going to need clit stimulation even if the orgasm is coming from the g-spot. So keep that steady and focus on your fingering. If you do everything right, she should have a super intense orgasm – keep licking and fingering her through it.

This is the kind of female orgasm that can involve her entire body, making a woman feel numb and shiver with excitement uncontrollably.

So that’s how to give a woman a g-spot orgasm. It’s just the basics but that technique never fails for me.

If you want to get more advanced and learn other orgasm techniques I suggest you watch this video.

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