It’s every lover’s dream – intense, mind-blowing orgasms that leave your legs weak… The ultimate connection with your lover.
Do you want the bad news? For 70% of women, that just doesn’t happen during sex.
Worse, what if I told you that 80 percent are moaning and groaning not only when they are absolutely not climaxing or coming anywhere near it, but when they are really just wishing for the whole thing to be over?
Shocking, but true.
Sadly, many guys think penetration (thrusting in and out) is enough to make a woman orgasm. The thing is, that’s not how most women’s bodies work.
Do you want to learn the right moves to satisfy your lover every time?
Research has shown there’s a combination of three moves that are most likely to make her cum. If you do this part right, it’s as simple as 1-2-3.
1. Get her wet
Teasing your woman can begin before you even get to the bedroom. Whispering suggestive things in her ear, or even texting her hints of what you want to do with her will spark a lot of excitement. Remember it’s all about building the tension.
When it comes to foreplay, most men make the mistake of going right for her sensitive spots. Take your time, slow down, and start with deep kissing.
Let your hands work their way down her body. Focus on the less obvious spots, like her neck, toes, inner thighs, butt and spine. Don’t jump right to her breasts or her genitals.
2. Use your tongue
What makes one woman orgasm can be quite different than what makes another woman orgasm, but oral sex is almost universal.
Wait until your partner is hot and heavy, begging for you to go between her legs, rather than going in too quickly and killing the mood.
Start with a light touch, then work up to more extreme stimulation with an increasingly faster pace and more intensity. Think of it as building to a crescendo.
3. Stimulate her clitoris and G-Spot at the same time
Once she’s ready, genital stimulation is the best way to help a woman reach orgasm. The natural way is vaginal penetration (g-spot) and clitoral stimulation at the same time.
A woman’s G-spot is typically about 5 to 8 cm (2 to 3 inches) inside her vagina, so shallow thrusts are all you need.
The trick is to find the right rhythm, then don’t change it, and don’t stop.
Many women have hot-spots further in that are only stimulated by deep penetration. Positions that shorten the vagina (legs brought closer to the abdomen or chest) can help you reach into the region above and below the cervix, which is how to give her a “deep spot” orgasm.
For more tips and tricks you can use to help any woman have a mind blowing, toe curling orgasm, click here.