Want to remind him why he’s a lucky, lucky man? Tear off some clothes, get wild and ride until his brains pop out of excitement.
First things first: There is no objective right or wrong way to ride your partner! I’ll give you plenty of tips and techniques, but try to remember that your goal is your own enjoyment. Trying these techniques should feel good for you too.
Now, here’s how to ace the girl on top position and make riding your guy feel even better.
Forget What You See in Porn
You always see porn stars flat on their feet, bouncing up and down at breakneck speed, and slamming down with a ferocious intensity. It looks intimidating, painful, and even a little terrifying!
In reality, cowgirl is a much more relaxed position. You typically use a smaller range of motion, move slower, and grind more than bounce. Don’t let porn keep you from trying it out.
Don’t go too fast
Finishing too soon is one of the most common sexual problems men face. There are several “tricks” that can delay his orgasm and give you the chance to climax simultaneously. ‘Edging’ means bringing someone to the brink of orgasm but denying them the final climax and it’s a great way to drive your man wild in bed.
Have your partner lie flat on their back, and straddle them so that your legs are on each side of their body. You should be resting on your knees, with your feet pointing back towards their feet, and your body should be fairly upright.
Take their penis or strap-on in your hand and help guide it into you. A little lube can help them slide in easier, especially if you’re feeling nervous. Lower all the way onto them. Then, slowly start rocking your hips back and forth in the direction of their head. Keep your pelvis in contact with theirs at first (remember, no bouncing unless you want to!). Then try grinding your hips in slow circles. Experiment with clockwise and counterclockwise movements.