How to Give a BJ

Want to treat your man to the best blow job ever? Try out these OMG tips and naughty techniques and give him the most amazing oral sex of his life.

Nothing says “I love you” like a great blow job. Plus, having the power to send your man over the edge with a knee-buckling, thigh-quivering orgasm should make you feel sexy as hell.

Giving a man great head is an art, and the best artists know how to slowly build up the tension right up to the moment of climax, then stop.

The key to giving a mind-blowing BJ is actually enjoying it. Men love oral sex. It’s a show he gets to watch.

Instead of rushing straight to business, really take your time with the prelude. If you like teasing, chances are he does, too. Build it up. Just when he thinks it’s happening, pull back.

Start by kissing him slowly on his mouth, then keep on going all the way down.

The most sensitive skin on his entire body is his frenulum — the V-shaped part under the head of the penis where the glans meets the shaft.

Balls are extra sensitive. You can do things with them, too, like gently licking or sucking on them.

Wait until he’s throbbing hard, then keeping your tongue flat, start at the underside of his balls and lick your way up to the tip of his cock.

Grasp the base of his penis with one hand and lightly squeeze, using the other hand to assist your mouth as you stimulate his head and upper-shaft. Grasping the base of his cock will direct more blood flow to the head, magnifying the sensations.

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Swirl your tongue around the underside of his head, like how you’d lick a lollipop. Try flicking that zone with the tip of your tongue

Focus your mouth on the head getting it as wet as you can, while lightly gripping his shaft with your hands. Milk his cock as you move your head up and down, massaging with your tongue.

Give him the best BJ ever!

Make eye-contact with your man and let him see how much pleasure it gives you to please him.

Let him hear it too. You’ll make him feel like superman! Men want you to worship their cocks just as much as they do.

Now for the finish.

Decide where he’s going to cum before you get there. Remember that for a man, it always feels much better to cum inside your mouth.

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The perfect finish

When it’s time, don’t stop. Close your lips around his cock, rub your tongue against his frenulum and suck.

If you don’t want to swallow that’s okay. Keep a towel within reach for clean up.

Other men like to pull out and either finish with their own hand or with you doing it for them. Generally they want to jerk them off and come on your breasts or body.

It’s up to you. Do what you are comfortable with and most importantly what you enjoy! Sex should be fun, and when you are giving a blowjob, he’ll enjoy it the most when you are enjoying it too.

Best BJ Positions

Lay Back Jack

In the Lay Back Jack (aka "The Usual") Position, the guy simply lays back while his partner performs oral from a lying position between his legs. All I can say is, if you are fortunate enough to be able to call this the Usual... you're a Lucky Bastard!"

69 Position

For lovers of oral sex, both give and receive at the same time. While it may take a little more coordination and confidence than other bedroom moves, the effort is usually worth it!

Face Fuck

If your man doesn't come from blowjobs, there is one way to change that. Either flat-on-your-back or kneeling, let him grab the back of your head, insert his cock in your wide-open mouth, and simply fuck your throat like a pussy.

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