I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there – and I’m not the only woman who says this.
Most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he’s got it made.
Eating a woman’s pussy is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy.
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It’s not really a secret: Many women prefer oral sex to intercourse. In fact, research shows that 75% of women don’t orgasm through penetration alone. Most women will need a little more, and that’s where giving great head comes in.
So if you’re wondering how to lick pussy so good you leave her panting and doe-eyed, this guide is for you.
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Make Her Comfortable
If you treat going down on your partner like a chore, she will notice, and it will take her out of the moment. Women, in particular, need to be relaxed and comfortable to enjoy sex.
You’ll put your partner at ease and boost their degree of pleasure if you show them you actually enjoy giving oral, rather than just doing it because it’s expected.
Make sure she can lie back and let every muscle go. Set her up with a few pillows if she wants to be propped up for comfort. Your comfort is just as important as hers. Position yourself to avoid any neck or hand cramping.
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Take It Slowly
Some guys will jump head first off the high dive into her lap and start lapping her up like their lives depended on it. However, her experience will be way more pleasurable if you start slow.
Work your way slowly down her body paying close attention to her breasts. Once you’re down there, kiss her inner thighs and slowly get closer to her labia.
By starting slow and switching up the intensity from high to low and low to high, you create sexual tension, which eventually spills over in the form of orgasm.
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Ask Her What She Likes
Showing interest in what brings your partner pleasure is a huge turn-on. Every person’s body is different, and people enjoy being stimulated in various ways. Ask your partner what they want you to do to them.
If she’s unsure what works for her, try touching her in different ways and encourage her to tell you what feels good. It definitely makes for some sparkling dirty talk. The thing is, you’re not a mind-reader. Ask and then do what your partner says.
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When Something Works, Keep At It
The number one rule of great oral sex is consistency. What one person likes, another may not. Every single body is different and likes different things.
That being said, when you find something that’s working, stick to it. The moment your partner is moaning that she’s about to come is not the moment to try something new.
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Gently Work Her Clit
The clitoris is a gateway to some of the most insane levels of peak pleasure a woman could ever experience. This is because it has around 8,000 nerve endings, which is more than twice what the penis has.
You’re missing out on a massive treasure chest of sexual experience if you ignore the clitoris.
There are different ways to work the clitoris. Start slowly. Dance around the clit with your tongue, or lightly graze it to start building sensation.
Listen to your partner respond as you lick their clit up and down or from side to side. You should be able to tell which they prefer, and it never hurts to ask if they like it!
Instead of just licking her, use your lips and tongue to suck on her clit. You could try gentle back and forth motions, small circular motions, or even a light tap. Engage the clitoral hood, too. Remember, it also has nerve endings.
There are other key internal erogenous zones, but a decent percentage of women can’t orgasm without clitoral stimulation. So give it the attention, love, and respect it deserves.
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Use Your Hands
Some people are just fine with clitoral stimulation alone, while others may prefer extra stimulation such as penetration. Here are some ideas for that extra stimulation.
Work on the labia — The labia are sensitive too, so don’t forget about them. Stimulate them by gently licking them to offer a more all-encompassing sensation.
Use your fingers — If your partner likes to be penetrated during oral, you can use one or two fingers to penetrate the vagina. Lightly stroke the G-spot with your fingers in a curling motion while licking their clit.
Don’t forget the breasts — Again, breasts and nipples are super sensitive. With a free hand, reach up and grab their breast or rub their nipple as you’re going down on them.
See if they like tongue penetration — Some people enjoy penetration from the tongue when getting head, but it doesn’t offer as much stimulation as licking the clit, for example. See how they respond, and if they like it, alternate between the clit and vagina with your tongue.
Play around with her butt — Some people enjoy anal stimulation while receiving head, whether through your fingers or mouth. Again, always remember to get consent and make sure you know their hygiene preferences.
Don’t be afraid to use toys — Sex toys don’t just have to be for solo fun. They can be a great addition to a healthy sex life with your partner. The options are endless based on what you and your partner like.
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You Don’t Have To Stop at the First Orgasm
One orgasm is great, but two are even better. Note that the clitoris can be very sensitive after climax, so don’t dive back in for Big O number two right away.
In the meantime, focus your attention on other less sensitive areas. Then, once you’ve given her some time to recover, you can gear up for round two.
PRO-TIP: She may not always orgasm, and it’s not a reflection of your ability. Please don’t keep at it for hours to prove your expertise. It won’t end well.
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