Most guys can fuck, and those who can usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head, he’s got it made.
I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there – and I’m not the only woman who says this.
When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she’s found a treasure she’s not going to let go of too quickly. These men are rare and she knows it.
Because unfortunately, most guys who give it a try have no idea what they’re doing.
Maintain eye contact with her. If she doesn’t look at you, that’s fine, but every time she looks down and sees you watching her face while you provide her pleasure with your tongue it’s a major thrill.
The key to eating a girl out is teasing. Don’t just lick. Pay close attention to how she moves her body. Women take longer to reach a peak state of arousal than men do.
Don’t forget, the clitoris isn’t the only part of her pussy you should care about. You wouldn’t want all your stimulation just on the head of the penis would you?
When you’re eating pussy, settle in. Get comfortable, have fun, and don’t stop until your partner asks you to stop.
If you don’t rush it, you’ll have a much better chance of helping your partner orgasm… faster. Sounds silly, doesn’t it? But it’s true.
Take your time. Women are different then men. You can’t just hammer the clit to orgasm the way you hammer your cock. Use your whole tongue, the tip, especially the smooth underside.
And … you’re going to have to get your fingers wet. Insert a finger or two into her vagina as you are licking.
Once she’s coming, don’t stop unless she specifically tells you to stop. Hold her hips in place while swirling your tongue around her vulva and fingering her.
Ever hear a girl say that she came hard? This is probably how it happened.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you’ve made her come by giving her the best head she’s ever had, don’t leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until she’s come all the way down.
A woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those first few moments after sex.