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Imagine the perfect lovemaking position: It would be comfortable, make her feel seductive and sensual and all but guarantee an earth-shattering climax for you both. Sound like a dream? Actually, it’s woman on top – the “bad girl” pose that flips missionary sex on its head and puts her in total control.

Being on top offers most women more gratification than other sex styles because it lets her woman feel close to her partner while putting her in charge of her own pleasure. She gets to decide how fast or how deep to go, making it more likely that she’ll reach orgasm.

Surprisingly, we get a lot of feedback from female readers saying they have no clue how to move in the woman-on-top position. Most are just shy about how they look naked. A few are scared of looking like a rodeo rider gone wrong.

To help you in make woman-on-top a favorite part of your lovemaking repertoire, we’ve come up with the five best ways to master this hot bedroom move.


cowgirl style

I’m sure you’ve had a woman ride you in the Cowgirl position before. Men really get into the sight of their sexy wild thing riding them.

One of the best things about this standard girl on top pose is the amount of clitoral stimulation it provides. The more the woman leans forward, the better the friction.


The Asian Cowgirl sex position is ideal for when guys are low on stamina or in need of a break, let her do the work and sit back and enjoy the view. While you lie on your back, your woman should squat on top of you facing your feet. Instead of using her knees to go up and down, she’ll use her feet – or even better, rock back and forth on your cock.


A great position to start your session. Lie down, have her lay on top of you and encourage her to grind on you to warm things up. When she’s ready, slip inside and rock back and forth. The angle is perfect for the slow, intimate sex women like and you get the extra bonus of lots of clitoral stimulation.


In the Betty Rocker Position, she picks the angle and speed of the thrusting, so there’s plenty of opportunity to experiment and find that inside hot spot.


sexual intercourse

Unlike most rear entry positions in which he holds the reins, the Beetle puts her squarely in control. To tease him, she may partially lower herself onto his cock, then raise up again. He may beg for her to take the full plunge, but tantalizing him in this way will please him as much as her.